So, you've matched with someone interesting and arranged a first date. Brilliant news! However, first dates can be daunting. Here, our RSVP dating expert explains how, with a little preparation and the right mindset, you can set the stage for a great connection.
Planning the Perfect First Date
Pick a date and time that works for both of you. A casual coffee shop, drinks at a bar with a good atmosphere, or a gallery visit for those who share a passion for art are all solid options. Avoid overly extravagant places that might feel intimidating.
- Make an effort with your appearance but stay true to your style.
- Read through your date's profile and jot down some talking points. This doesn't mean scripting a conversation but having a few ideas can be a confidence booster.
- Put your phone away! This shows your date you're genuinely interested in getting to know them.
- This is your chance to learn about your date. Ask questions, follow up on what they say, and be an active listener.
- Avoid dwelling on your ex, negativity about work, or other topics that might bring down the mood.
- Even if you're feeling nervous, project confidence. Make eye contact, smile, and hold your head high.
What to Do at the End of the Date
If the date is going well and you'd like to meet again, suggest a follow-up date.
A quick text the next day thanking your date for a lovely time is a nice touch. However, avoid coming on too strong or bombarding.
Remember, our RSVP dating experts are here to support you through your dating journey. We’re a dating agency that provides a professional matchmaking service and hundreds of singles events throughout London and the UK. Call us for an informal chat to see how we can help you today.
